Sunday, March 05, 2006

Have you ever really loved a women????

How many men would have wished for the power that Mel Gibson possessed in the movie "What women Want". Most of the men crib that they just don understand what women are thinking,what they want,how will they react to a situation. She wants you to be more sensitive and once you become one then she says you've changed. She wants you to be honest about everything and when you utter the truth she says your hurting her feelings. Ok so women are complicated species.Agreed. Sit right back you guys.take a chill pill. I can help you guys with something here.

This is what she looks for in her man....

  • To top the list SENSE OF HUMOUR. Trust me even an ugly man with a rocking sense of humour can sweep her off her feet. Make her laugh like crazy and she is all yours.
  • Honesty,Integrity,Loyalty. If you are double crossing with her then you are a dead man. If you are drunk just tell her that you are. If you are coming home late tell her why you got late.
  • The M-word. Believe it or not its very important. Ok i know reality sucks. But darlings welcome to the real world. You can have the looks of Brad pitt but if you a salary thats a pittance then you are a loser. Most women look for a financially supportive guy. You need not have a huge bank balance but atleast something to satisfy her needs. (ok iam talking about the needy women and not the greedy ones here)
  • Sex. Iam i being very blatant here. Well the truth is she wants it. A good sex and pleasure can make her all yours.
  • Sensitive and very supportive. Ask her why she is upset. once in a while offer to listen to her problems,about her work. Tell her I Love You atleast once in a day. Give her that hug when you leave for work and when you come back.
  • Offer to help her in her routine chores. Most of the women these days go for work. So remember she has to do her routine chores at home and then rush to work. But you men only have to take care of your work at office. Atleast make sure you do your things properly. Like for instance going for shower without a towel and then shouting from inside, put your damn shoes or files somewhere and tell her that she has put it somewhere.
  • Take her on a holiday once in a year.You both need break from work dont you.
  • Be a good listener. when she is saying something do not read a newspaper or watch TV. Put it all aside,ask her to sit next to you and just listen.
  • Make her feel important, tell her that she is most beautiful and wonderful women in the whole world.
  • Do not forget the most important dates. Her birthday.your wedding anniversary,her parents birthday. Keep the reminders on your damn phone man...It helps.

Ok now you all men there try and incorporate these first. See the difference. Trust me she will do anything for her man. get me right ANYTHING...Will leave you all with Bryan Adams' lovely song....

When you love a woman tell her that she's really wanted

when you love a woman tell her that shes the one

She needs somebody to tell her that you'll always be together

So tell me have you ever really.really really ever loved a woman